Is She Faking An Orgasm?

Men wonder if women are faking orgasms all the time. It has been one of those questions that have been around for years, and it will probably continue to be hotly debated for many more. Still, there are many reasons that women fake orgasms. These can include a desire to not hurt your feelings if you did not succeed in bringing her to orgasm, if she has had a long, bad day from which she is still stressed out, and if she has had too much to drink.

While alcohol does decrease a woman's sexual inhibitions, it can also lead to her having a hard time having an orgasm. It makes take her longer, or she may not be able to have one at all.

But how can you tell if she is faking an orgasm? There are some telltale signs that can give you a good indication whether she is really having one or if she is just giving a good imitation of having an orgasm.

For instance, if a woman is turned on by you, she will be wet. Her vaginal area will be slick when you touch it, kiss it or slide a sex toy into it. If she is wet, then she is having a good time, and chances are good that she is going to have an orgasm at some point.

If she is dry then you need to engage in some more foreplay to get her turned on. You do want her to be wet and ready when you reach your orgasm, so that she can also reach orgasm. So make sure that she is turned on before you start letting yourself get close, or she may end up faking an orgasm in order to not hurt your feelings.

If she seems distracted while you are having sex, this is also a sign that she might be getting ready to fake an orgasm. If she is looking around, then suddenly comes with screams and moans and all the rest, you might be in a position to question whether or not she is having an orgasm.

A sudden orgasm is always kind of suspect because women usually build up to having an orgasm, and are usually concentrating intensely in order to achieve orgasm. If she suddenly has an orgasm and it sounds convincing, you might still wonder.

The fact is if you have been with your girlfriend for a while, you know what she sounds like and how she moves her body when she is having an orgasm. A woman actually displays a variety of physical signs when she is getting close to an orgasm. Her nipples become hard and erect, her labia and clitoris will be swollen and her body temperature will go up.

You should also feel those muscle contractions that occur when she has an orgasm. With a woman, these contractions can vary in intensity, so you might feel them more strongly one time and less strongly another time. If you suspect she is faking, talk to her about it. She just might not have been able to get there, and let her know that it is okay to be truthful with you about that. Find out what really gets her hot, and do it next time so that those screams are for real.